Bring yourself back to the here and now. Be present. Enjoy whatever you're doing, even if it's tedious, mundane, or unpleasant. There is always something worthwhile to be found in your activity to anchor you. If you are agonizing over the past or where you're headed, you are doomed to a lifetime of living somewhere else. If someone tells you what you are, dismiss this judgment, because it's usually them reflecting their "insecurities" on you! In telling yourself, you will succeed in convincing yourself. Insecurity is a state of mind enhanced by the word.
The "hurt" that you experience is a desired result of theirs, not an automatic reaction to hold. Learn to push aside the daily unkindness and replace them with rational thoughts instead of gut feelings. Try it: "It is their issue, not my personality".If someone says "Hi" to you, greet them back. If you don't answer them, you'll feel weird and they'll think the same. You are there, you can't pretend you're not, so be communicative in the best possible way. If someone doesn't like you and makes you feel hurt, (which will and does happen 24/7 to everybody), realize it's their problem, not yours. For instance, do you want to live in that big house near town? Plan, save money, and don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it. If you don't have a plan, you'll be easily persuaded by other people's maps.
Therefore, physically and mentally security is the most advantage. On the other hand, life insurance is the best way to be secured financially. Without money we can live too. No food, house, cloth, ...these basic needs to be completed in the retirement too. However, to grab happiness,these things to be understood.
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